Etiquette

Making Your Deposit Client Hygiene Passing the Envelope Date Behaviour Cancellations & Refunds

30% deposit is to be paid at the time of booking confirmation and the remaining 70% is to be paid in cash at the start of our date. Extended length dates (8h+) require a 50% deposit. Our date is not written in my calendar until this has been completed.

I currently accept deposits via Crypto (stablecoins: USDC/USDT), YouPay, Throne, or by card to a discreetly named account.

For any date over 30min travel, travel expenses will also be added to your deposit. If you would like me to organise a hotel (incall), the cost will also be added to your deposit starting from £150, dependent upon city.

I am fastidious when it comes to my own personal hygiene and sexual health . I kindly ask that you take the same care and attention yourself.

Please read and follow the advice of  this excellent guide to client hygiene so that we can have a sweet-smelling and successful date.

If you’re not at your freshest, I may have to ask you to shower and brush your teeth prior to any interactions . If this happens, please be aware that I may regrettably decide that we are not compatible for any future dates.

We’re meeting for the first time, and there’s that awkward moment – Should I hand it to her? Do I wait for her to ask..?

Meeting at yours: please prepare an unsealed envelope containing the remaining amount of my donation and place it in clear view for when I arrive. I will verify the contents for both our peace of mind.

Meeting at mine or in public: Please pass my envelope upon arrival. If we’re in public, you can have fun with it; put it in a greeting card, tuck it inside a gift bag or book (yes, I will read the book afterwards!), get a funky-coloured envelope, whatever floats your boat. I will discreetly verify the contents at an opportune moment.

I value my health and yours. As such, I do not offer Bareback or A-levels. Please do not ask. I will not make any exceptions. Attempting to push this boundary will result in my immediate leaving and refusing to see you again.

If you are a client and want to keep in touch in-between dates, please purchase something from my wishlist page or send a tip prior to reaching out. 

I am not opposed to kinks, there are even some that I quite enjoy! However, I require all dates interested in a kink of any type to clearly state their wishes when filling out my booking form so that I can make an informed decision as to whether I am comfortable proceeding or not. Withholding these expectations until arriving to our date will result in my immediate leaving and refusing to see you again.

I do not offer PSE or ‘party’ services.

I do not tolerate rough physical treatment or hair grabbing/pulling under ANY circumstances.


Your deposit serves as your cancellation fee and is only refundable in the rare instance that I am the one who cancels our date.

Shorter dates (<8hrs): If you cancel with more than 24hrs notice you may use your original deposit for a rescheduled date within two months.

Longer dates (>8hrs): If you cancel with less than 48hrs notice I will require 50% of the remaining payment to be sent as compensation. If you cancel with less than 24hrs notice I will require 100% of the remaining payment to be sent as compensation. Failure to provide this will result in my declining to see you again.

I reserve the right to cancel our date & keep your deposit if you display rude or abusive behaviour during our correspondence.

I reserve the right to immediately leave & keep my entire compensation if you display rude or abusive behaviour, or attempt to cross my boundaries during our date.