Etiquette

Making Your Deposit Client Hygiene Passing the Envelope Date Behaviour Cancellations & Refunds

30% deposit is to be paid at the time of booking confirmation and the remaining 70% is to be paid in cash at the start of our date. Extended length dates (8h+) require a 50% deposit. Our date is not written in my calendar until this has been received.

I currently accept deposits via YouPay, Throne, or by card to a discreetly named account (this is my preferred method).

If you are extra privacy conscious, please reach out to ask me about Crypto deposits, but please be aware that I will only accept stablecoins ( USDC/USDT ).

For any date over 30min travel, travel expenses will also be added to your deposit. If you would like me to organise a hotel (incall), the cost will also be added to your deposit starting from £150, dependent upon city.

I am fastidious when it comes to my own personal hygiene and sexual health . I kindly ask that you take the same care and attention yourself.

Please read and follow the advice of  this excellent guide to client hygiene so that we can have a sweet-smelling and successful date.

If you’re not at your freshest, I may have to ask you to shower and brush your teeth prior to any interactions . If this happens, please be aware that I may regrettably decide that we are not compatible for any future dates.

If you suffer from any non-contagious  skin condition, this is fine and will not affect my decision to meet you beyond ensuring your comfort. Please be sure to inform me in advance if you think it necessary. Don’t worry, this is a no-judgement zone; I myself suffer from a rather irritating allergy to most laundry detergents which likes to occasionally rear its head, so I understand the struggle!


We’re meeting for the first time, and there’s that awkward moment – Should I hand it to her? Do I wait for her to ask..?

Meeting at yours: please prepare an unsealed envelope containing the remaining amount of my donation and place it in clear view for when I arrive. I will verify the contents for both our peace of mind.

Meeting at mine or in public: Please pass my envelope upon arrival. If we’re in public, you can have fun with it; put it in a greeting card, tuck it inside a gift bag or book (yes, I will read the book afterwards!), get a funky-coloured envelope, whatever floats your boat. I will discreetly verify the contents at an opportune moment.

I value my health and yours. As such, I do not offer A-levels (greek) or Bareback. Please do not ask. I will not make any exceptions. Attempting to push this boundary will result in my immediate leaving and refusing to see you again.

If you are a client and want to keep in touch in-between dates, please purchase something from my wishlist page or send a tip prior to reaching out. 

I am not opposed to kinks, there are even some that I quite enjoy! However, I require all dates interested in a kink of any type to clearly state their wishes when filling out my booking form so that I can make an informed decision as to whether I am comfortable proceeding or not. Withholding these expectations until arriving to our date will result in my immediate leaving and refusing to see you again.

I do not offer PSE or ‘party’ services.

I do not tolerate rough physical treatment or hair grabbing/pulling under ANY circumstances.


Your deposit serves as your cancellation fee and is only refundable in the rare instance that I am the one who cancels our date.

Shorter dates (<8hrs): If you cancel with more than 24hrs notice you may use your original deposit for a rescheduled date within two months. If you cancel with less than 24hrs notice I will require 100% of the remaining payment to be sent as compensation. Failure to provide this will result in my declining to see you again.

Longer dates (>8hrs): If you cancel with less than 48hrs notice I will require 50% of the remaining payment to be sent as compensation. If you cancel with less than 24hrs notice I will require 100% of the remaining payment to be sent as compensation. Failure to provide this will result in my declining to see you again.

I reserve the right to cancel our date & keep your deposit if you display rude or abusive behaviour during our correspondence.

I reserve the right to immediately leave & keep my entire compensation if you display rude or abusive behaviour, or attempt to cross my boundaries during our date.